Caring for Children with Adverse Childhood Experiences

Learn more about adverse childhood experiences, how to identify when a child has dealt with one, and what to do to care for them next. 

Caring for Children with Adverse Childhood Experiences

 Caring for Children with Adverse Childhood Experiences

In the beginning stages of life, a sense of safety and security can put children in the best position to develop. Unfortunately, there is a lot that may be out of their control or out of the control of their caregivers. Sometimes negative, or even traumatic, situations can occur during a child's early development. These instances are called Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs).

What are adverse childhood experiences (ACEs)?

Not all negative or unpleasant situations that a child encounters are necessarily adverse childhood experiences. An adverse childhood experience is a traumatic event that occurs before the age of 18. What distinguishes them from typical negative situations is the potential impact of trauma and long-term effects. ACEs can include a variety of circumstances, grouped into the following categories: abuse, neglect, household challenges, substance abuse, incarceration, violence, and mental illness. Some specific examples of ACEs include:

  • Emotional, physical, or sexual abuse
  • Experiencing a mentally ill family member
  • Domestic violence
  • Physical or emotional neglect or abandonment
  • Divorce or separation of parents or caregivers
  • Having an incarcerated family member
  • Witnessing or experiencing violence 
  • Experiencing a family member attempt, or die by, suicide
  • Witnessing substance abuse or alcoholism 

Symptoms of adverse childhood experiences

The effects of these traumatic experiences can manifest in a variety of ways. Since they affect children’s emotional, physical, and cognitive development, you may notice multiple symptoms present themselves at once. If a child is displaying any of these symptoms for an extended period of time, it’s possible they have experienced an ACE:

  • Trouble sleeping
  • Language delay
  • Easily startled
  • Sadness, irritability, or aggression
  • Loss of prior developed skill
  • Difficulty paying attention
  • Difficulty problem-solving
  • Headaches or body aches
  • Avoiding adults or peers
  • Passive or anxious behavior

How do adverse childhood experiences affect development?

An adverse childhood experience can impact a child’s development in multiple ways. Even going into adulthood, ACEs can have lasting effects on brain function, stress-response systems, decision-making, learning, and physical and mental health. These effects are so expansive and intrusive, they can even be passed on genetically as well.

Adverse childhood experiences can also cause something called toxic stress. This occurs when stress floods the body so intensely that it can negatively impact the body’s immune system, cardiovascular system, nervous system, or metabolism. Development in the areas of the brain that control logical thinking, memory, and emotional responses can also be impacted. For children specifically, this bodily trauma can affect their overall development, ability to learn, decision-making, and attention span. This can make it more difficult for them to form healthy and stable relationships, cause them to struggle in school, and lead to behavioral issues. 

Addressing adverse childhood experiences early is imperative because the effect they have on the brain is not permanent and can actually be worked against and reversed. Understanding ACEs, their symptoms, and their effects is the first step toward helping children to overcome them. Even children who may be at an increased risk of experiencing an ACE can still be helped with informed care and training. 

ACEs training for educators

The best way for teachers and schools to support children when it comes to adverse childhood experiences is to have a trauma-informed approach. Creating an overall culture built around understanding, treating, and recovering from trauma gives children the support they need. This starts with knowing how to identify the symptoms of an ACE and being able to ask, “What happened that is causing this behavior”, instead of just, “What is wrong with you?”

An atmosphere of emotional and physical safety benefits all children (as well as teachers), not just those who are recovering from a traumatic experience. This culture can even help prevent ACEs from occurring and lessen the initial effects when one does occur. Some ways that teachers and families can cultivate this environment are to:

  • Recognize and understand when disruptive behavior is a coping mechanism for trauma
  • Teach children self-soothing behaviors
  • Help children monitor their emotions and reflect on them
  • Coordinate support meetings and intervention processes with administrators and other teachers
  • Normalize and exemplify healthy coping mechanisms for intense emotions 
  • Develop individual relationships with each child built on trust and mutual respect
  • Understand the types of ACEs, how to identify their effects on children’s behavior, and how to reverse those effects

If you suspect or have confirmed that a child has experienced an adverse childhood experience, it’s important to act. The biggest way to help a child after an ACE is to provide support. Be gentle, kind, and patient in your approach. Focus on fostering positive relationships with your children and cultivating a safe learning environment. 

Create a safe space for all children

Teachers and families do as much as possible to protect children, but traumatic experiences can still occur. The best way for teachers and schools to support children, whether they have had an ACE or not, is to create a safe and secure environment for them. This atmosphere is the best for their overall development and growth. The sooner you can create this in your classroom and school, the sooner your children will have some protection against the effects of adverse childhood experiences.

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